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I Failed 8 Times. Here’s What Finally Worked.
One book. One shift. One habit that changed everything.
Most people quit after one failed business.
I failed eight.

The first one?
A $10 razor I tried selling on Shopify in 2019.
No ads. No traffic. No sales.
But I was obsessed.
I thought I could force success if I just kept trying new things.
So I did:
Amazon dropshipping (got banned with $3K locked in the account)
A social media agency (crickets)
Wholesale real estate (no leads)
Trading (burned through time and money)
YouTube channel (no consistency, no growth)
Consulting business (wasn’t ready)
Every single one?
Flopped.
And yeah, most people would’ve quit.
But for some reason…I didn’t.
It wasn’t ambition. It was ego.
I was hooked on the idea of proving everyone wrong, even if it was eating me alive.
So I kept going.
Even while I was $10K in debt.
Even while watching others take off faster. I didn’t need another business idea.
I needed a system. A focus. A single direction.
But nothing stuck—until I read a book that finally slapped me awake:
“The One Thing” by Gary Keller.
One line punched me in the gut:
“Success is built sequentially. One thing at a time.”
I realized the real reason I kept failing wasn’t because the businesses were bad.
It was because I never gave anything time to grow.
I was chasing speed instead of skill.
Validation instead of mastery.
So I made a shift:
I stopped trying everything.
And started doing one thing right.
That’s when things finally started to change.
Here’s what I learned the hard way:
Discipline beats dopamine.
Patience isn’t a delay—it's a weapon.
And when you stop jumping ships, you give yourself the chance to build one that floats.
Most people are a 10-year overnight success.
They just don’t show you the 9 years of failure.
So if you're in your messy middle, keep going.
It's not chaos—it's compounding.
PS:
I’m building something for people like us—
the ones who kept going when quitting would've been easier.
Something that gives you the focus I never had in the beginning.
Stay tuned. This will be the reset button you’ve been looking for.